Cuban Style Corn - with mayonnaise, cojita cheese and chili
The first time I fell in love with New York was in December of 2001. In September of that year, my husband (then my fiancee) left for a two year MBA at the Stern University in New York. We agreed that we would meet in New York in December. I was giddy with excitement at the thought of spending Christmas in New York. What fun! For the three months prior to my leaving, I daydreamed about ice skating at the Rockefeller Center, walking hand in hand around Central Park, making a snowman for the very first time, the BIG after Christmas sales and of course, the BIG BIG reunion after being apart for what seemed like an eternity!
I touched down at the JFK early on a Friday morning and was met by my fiancee. It was the perfect “airport reunion” scene – you know the one where the guy is standing at the arrivals section holding a dozen roses. There were tears (mine), hugs (his) and kisses(ours!) and it was all very romantic. Of course a great start to my dream Christmas holiday.
Of course, things don’t always go as planned.
We headed back to his flat and he told me that he had would skip his 9 am class to spend time with me. I was tired and wanted to take a shower and a short nap so I told him to go to his class and we would catch up around mid-day.
After my quick nap, with nothing better to do, I wandered around his room and there it was – on his study table… his cel phone. He had left it.
I know, I know… I shouldn’t have. But I picked it up and went through his messages. First the inbox – one message – from Samantha*. DINNER ON SATURDAY. IVE BOOKED FOR 7 PM. First, this took me completely by surprise. I sat down and couldn’t breathe. Then, I was furious. I wanted to get out of the flat – I didn’t want to be around when he came back for fear of what I would say, or do. Imagine, waiting for this moment for over three months, traveling over 20 hours to see him and then I see a message from Samantha?
I left his flat.
I wandered around the streets of New York for three hours. I was tired, angry, and betrayed. I was also cold and hungry.
Then I saw a little hole in the wall restaurant that had people lining up around the front counter. I could smell the aroma of grilled corn and it was intoxicating. Even in my sadness I knew I had to eat something and if people were queuing despite the cold weather, it must be worth trying!
It turns out, everyone was waiting to order the grilled corn, Cuban style. Dare I say it made me forget my sadness, even for those five minutes? When you try it, you will understand why. Sweet corn, perfectly grilled, slathered with mayonnaise and then sprinkled with Cotija, an aged cheese , chili powder and finished with a dash of fresh lime. The flavour sensations were amazing.
Grilled corn with mayonnaise, chili powder, cotija cheese and a dash of lime
I went back to his flat, prepared to fly back home. When I got back, he was frantically pacing the front of the building. “What happened to you!? Where did you go?!?” he screamed at me. “You left your phone, I read a text from Samantha” I replied.
He started laughing at me. He explained that Sam was his classmate from MBA. She also worked part time at Balthazar and because it was notoriously difficult to make a booking on a Saturday night with such short notice, she pulled a few strings and got a table for him and me on Saturday. Then, I started laughing with him.
The holiday was back on!
Recipe from Cuban Style Grilled Corn Inspired from Cafe Habana
Serves 2
- 2 ears of corn, husks removed
- 2 tablespoons mayonnaise
- 1/4 cup grated cotija cheese (can be substituted with grated parmesan cheese)
- pinch of chili powder (depending on how hot you like it)
- lime wedges
- Grill the corn over a barbecue or a hot grill until slightly charred
- Slather with mayonnaise
- Top with the cheese and chili powder
- Finish with a dash of lime
*Note – names have been changed to protect the innocent.
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OMW, Trissa, you are a clown. But that’s life….and I’m SO thankful it all worked out. It could have been a very different story 🙂
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Cool recipe, pretty close to what we eat down here in Mexico. Just one little thing, though: its coTiJa, not coJiTa cheese. Cojita means little one-legged girl in spanish
What an idiot! Too much tele-novela…….. Actually , you should have called Samantha… lol
The mouth watering corn is available here in LA and is one of my personal favorites as well. Some Mexican friends have told me where to get the authentic ingredients, so next time youre here, gimme a holla.
Trissa I just LOVE your stories. You know, even if he had cheated on you, it would all be worth it for that tasty corn, whats the saying, corn before hoes*??
*Actual saying is bros before hoes.
Hahaha oh the things an angry woman could do – discover great food, of course!!! I love how you incorporate stories into your posts Trissa! You got me hanging there until the last paragraph! I sort of suspected that the dinner booking was for you and Dan, but like a true soapie fan I just continued on and pretended I didn’t know the ending! 🙂 Mmmm where can I get cotija cheese in Sydney?
I loved reading this post! A beautiful story, and that corn looks so delicious. I can just imagine the smell of it from the picture and the way you describe it!
Haha I loved that story Trissa! I kind of suspected that (after all he is your husband now) but so glad that this stoiry had two good endings: a) the corn and b) the booking was for you.
O haha… that was a really funny post! I love New York too! Been there only once two years ago and I am still dying to go back there! Your corn sure looks delicious!
If your life was a movie it would have taken you guys years to sort out the drama and have a happy life together! Glad you only needed half a day 🙂
I had lunch at Balthazar earlier in the year, it was very impressive. I felt stingy though when I went to the bathroom and didn’t have my wallet on me so I couldn’t tip the toilet lady. Oops.
Read the post and can’t remember the food part! Great story. Best to you and the D.
LOL poooor husband, probably gave him a heart attack. Never been to NYC but I’m going next year, so hopefully we spot a couple hole in the wall places to eat too
Hehehe!!! Lesson learnt: Never check your boyfriend / fiancee / husband’s cell phone messagers to avoid unnecessary heartache. Love reading all the stories accompanied with your recipes!!
unfair arron got to try this and i didn’t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh Trissa. I love your post. I am inlove with New York. I went in May and I was on my own. It was the best 9 days of my life. Its such a great city.